About Loosely Structured Living
My Story
I used to think I had two options: get it together or embrace the chaos.
So I tried to get it together. I bought the planners, made the routines, downloaded the apps, and convinced myself that this time I was going to become the kind of person who followed the system.
And when that inevitably fell apart? I swung the other direction. Whatever. Boring families have clean houses.
Turns out, there’s a whole lot of room in the middle.
Loosely Structured Living is about finding that middle, between optimizing every inch of your life and constantly feeling like you’re drowning in it.
I don't want a perfectly organized life. I want one that works. I want a home we can actually live in, rhythms that make our days easier, less screen time without pretending technology is evil, meaningful traditions without turning every holiday into a production, and enough structure to keep us moving without scheduling the joy right out of our lives.
Around here, we’re big believers in getting 4% better. Small changes. Reasonable expectations. Doing things imperfectly because imperfectly still counts.
That’s the heart behind everything I create—from the The Screen Time Reset and Embracing Order Devotional to the conversations happening every week on the Loosely Structured Podcast.
This isn’t about finally becoming the woman who has it all together.
It’s about building a life you actually like living—even when you don’t.